Wow! Where did time go? I woke up this morning and realized that in ten months I will be Mrs. Old Dude.

When we first decided we wanted to upgrade from dating to marriage, I became a “wedding magazine buying, wedding blog stalking, ‘OMG, what colors should I choose’, Michael’s shopping, wedding obsessed freak”! {Yes, “freak” because why else would I buy massive amounts of crafting supplies and DIY books when I hadn’t so much as glued a piece of paper together since grade school and all BEFORE I had even one contract signed???}.

And now? I’m in Zen Wedding Planning mode {what an AWESOME name for a website by the way} where I keep saying…”I have time…there’s no rush to do that” or “It’s all good; I will decide on that later”. I don’t even want to start listing what still needs to be done. Today, I’ve made a conscious decision to lean on my planner for strict adherence to the list. Instead of checking boxes, I will try my best to focus on centering myself and doing what it takes to be a good wife and partner to my Old Dude {and getting my mind right about giving up a good portion of my closet space…Oy!}.

Of course, there will still be decisions and planning regarding the stationery, menu, decor, The Dress, and other details and I’m looking forward to making them and sharing them with my fellow Weddzillians! But, I refuse to let the process be stressful or angst ridden.

So today: I’m claiming my “10.10.10 Zen”. Everyone, repeat after me…OHMMMMMMMMMMMM.
Namaste.

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