Last April, my honey proposed to me at Disneyland with a modern diamond solitaire “for now.” We finally got my “forever” ring tonight and it’s not a diamond! 
You might remember I reported on Turtle Love Committee as an alternative for the traditional diamond solitaire. Their philosophy is “We think that the decision to spend a lifetime together should be about love and commitment, not about expensive cookie-cutter jewelry.” 
Keeping that in mind, we were excited to find my vintage style ring (a 4-karat cushion cut amethyst set in rose gold encrusted with diamonds) at a local jeweler’s. And it’s only 1/20 of our budget. Woo hoo!
When you were picking out rings, did you ever consider anything other than a diamond (e.g. sapphire)?